I started very early on with this t. Well on our first session I was telling her my partner had been abused and she then asked straight out if I was abused! So the topic of sex was brought in very early on. I told t that I had feelings for ex t and she asked if I fantasised about her. I started to giggle and squirm and she said its nothing to be ashamed of Mona we all have fantasies. I still couldn't tell her that I fantasise more about her than ex t.
I remember one day ex t asked me if I masterbated and I was taken aback. That's such a huge personal question, of course I didn't answer because I would never ask anyone that. So sex has always come into my therapeutic relationships but I didn't not bring it in first it's always been the t. Sometimes it's difficult talking to t about sex, I don't know why but I get so embarrassed and clam up. I will point to areas rather than say it and t will say it then for example "breasts" !
I am not like that with anyone else only t.