I'm sorry you are going through this. Marriage is already difficult and then to add depression into the mix can bring greater stress.

I would follow T's advice. Time in the hospital can help get meds leveled out and time away from your daily life to get perspective on things.

One of the symptoms of depression is agitation. I almost left my husband and then got help. I'm fortunate to have a supportive husband and our marriage is good but depression does put a strain on our relationship at times.

I hope you figure this out over time.