I like it when they are not -- at least outwardly -- disconcerted by anything they consider as being my quirks / weirdness.

Not that I don't like it but more that I'm perplexed when they appear to be perplexed by some things about me -- E.g. Current T's first reaction was multiple-exclamatory-points type surprise that I drove alone for a total of about 1,400 miles over this past weekend (to attend a silent retreat, the strictures of which seemed to make her noodle further explode it seemed but at least that I guess is understandable).

But, not sure why driving alone for long distances would be considered out of the norm. Almost makes me wonder about Ts' sense of 'normal'. Hmm...