gosh campanuala I'm so glad you said that, my blood ran cold, hot, cold, no no no you are so wrong about the abused going on to abuse their children....is that what you meant? or did you mean we take it out in other ways like aggression to our partners or something? Please do not ever say that to a sexually abused survivor, I have made DAMNED SURE my children were NEVER EVER put in a position where they could be in danger. My daughter was never even allowed to have guitar lessons with a man at school alone!!

My therapist said the same, we OVER compensate.,,,,,,,deep breaths Jin (((((((((breathing)))))sorry, this kind of attitude really upsets me as I strive so so hard to give my children the love and support and protection I never had.

Jin

((((((((((whitey))))))))

Are you seeing a therapist at all? You need to talk these feelings over with a qualified proffessional who can help you with this. I wish you all the best hun, sending gentle hugs if that's ok, pm me anytime, I have been through childhood abuse and just started therapy, it is helping me.

love, Jinny xoxoxoxo