Oh and in addition, though not married your post, as I'm reading it, kinda, just a little, reminded me of my man's mother. What a piece of work! A hot mess!
They went away Labor Day wkend. So I called her to check on her, and to see if she went, and how the trip turned out.
She seemed nice. She told me she went and had a good time. I was glad for her.
But I had determined beforehand that I would not mention him, and if she did i would very sternly let her know that this conversation is not about him. She did llightly mention his name only and I was ready! But that was it, nothing more.
Our conversation, to me, seemed like all went well. Until we hung up. BAM!...the phone went.
Oh well. I have a feeling that was because when I called him, what, a couple days before they left (?), he answered, and told me his mother, grown daughter, and her children were there, yet he still conversed with me, momma probably, as in might, wanted to know who he was talking to, either he didn't tell her or if he did momma didn't like it.
Oh well. He's a grown man. And she's a grown woman too. So she really needs to act like it and one way is by minding her own business!
My children are grown, the youngest 29. I mind my business.