[QUOTE=brainy;5275286]"My main concern at this moment is the baby. He or she does not need to be in MIL's environment. As a matter of fact, I think that you should make sure that the baby is not in her environment"
Mine as well, my child will not be put in that situation.

'Also, did you know that a mother's emotions can and does affect the baby in utero? Yes it does! That means then, at least until the baby's born, your wife needs to curtail visits with her mother, even if it must for the sake of the baby"
I did not know this, i knew stress could be a big deal and have told my wife the same. After the last dinner, i dont think we will be seeing her till after the baby...