listen here, too many docs and people are too narrow-minded when it comes to weight. i've heard that you can be overweight and fit, especially if you eat healthy and have exercise. really, i'm not kidding. you know, you may have to set boundaries on how docs tell you things (i'm saying this to be in denial, ok). i'm saying this - be reasonable. some people don't eat much and actually healthy and get plenty of exercise and just don't lose weigh (sometimes weigh can be genetic, too). be loving to yourself. i know it's hard when docs are telling you that you're cheating or not doing it right. get another doc, if you have to. take care of yourself and love yourself.