Oh honey, trust me. While I FULLY understand your stand, and I do..you don't know that woman! Oh and I absolutely believe, with ALL my heart that if a man wants you, he wants you. Period.
She actually told me, said to me, bragging, that she said to him how he doesn't need a wife, "you already had two, and YOU messed that up." A quessy feeling came over me, a feeling that lets you know something's up. And that something, from hearing this crazy woman, that, although yes, he indeed but of course had a big input in the demise of his marriage...SHE definitely had something to do with it!
Then, still bragging, she says, "and you know what he said to me? He said "momma I don't know what I'll do without you." "
Ahhh, so what is she trying to get me to swallow? Her rubbish?
Yes, yes, yes!
I'm still waiting for him to tell me about his prostate cancer and his having to sleep with a mask. Is that really true I'm wondering? I can't bring it up because it didn't come from him. So I'm trying to figure a way to ask about such a very sensitive subject. My father has it. When I want to ask my dad how he's coming along with it, doctor visits, etc, i just come right with it by a simple "so daddy, what's going on with your prostate cancer? Are you still seeing the doctor"? Etc.
But with this guy, how can I? Should I even? And why in the world would his mother tell me something like that about her grown son, and we're not even engaged for cryin' out loud!? I know I wouldn't tell any woman about my sons like that, feeling really, it's none of their business! I think it would be my sons' business to share. Momma even told me about the treatments, and the extent of those treatments. What am I supposed to do with that piece of information?
You know what I think? I think that by sharing such sensitive information, she's hoping that I wouldn't be interested anymore? Yeah? But are you kidding me? For if and when you really care about someone, REALLY care, you accept the whole package.
I know of someone, a man, who came down with Lou Garretts disease. He met someone, they fell in love. He wanted to marry her, but before he proposed, he told her of his ailment and what to expect. She loved him!!! So they married. He's really sick. But she loves him. That's all that mattered to her.