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Old Sep 09, 2016, 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by AlwaysChanging2 View Post
We can't take a compliment, either. After a lifetime of degradation, put downs and beatings.....a compliment freaks us out. It's actually embarrassing to be singled out that everyone inside freaks.


I don't know how to respond to or behave to a compliment that I dissociate and feel sick. Quite sad actually.


Today, I just say yeah thanks and change the subject, matter of fact like.


Thank you!! I also don't know how to respond to compliments. They make me think I've done something wrong. Makes no sense I know.

I also understand the dissociate and feel sick feeling, posting this actually put me there earlier.

This sucks!! But like we agreed earlier we are going forward!!
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Thanks for this!
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