Its sad about how many people in your family that you won't make amends to. Yet, I say this as I am waiting for my EX-uncle to just go!! My dad would of killed him anyway on what he has done to his kids and tried on my mom.

But - for you that know someone is dying - make amends - some of them die too young and you regret for the rest of your life, and feel guilty that you never mentioned those 3 words that are so important.

It makes you wonder and you won't ever know until they meet you above. Its not worth ignoring because of some dis-agreement. But - it all depends on what they did to you. Unspeakable things like you were abused - hey - I don't go for that! No matter what anybody says - NOONE should have to take that crap....dee