Unilateral decisions are not okay, ever, though it's at least something that she said this was a temporary hold on touch and not permanent.

If she has had time to consult with others, then this was not a reaction to whatever it was you told her yesterday, so there must have been something going on where she felt she had triggered something in you and it caused her concern. I am not defending her in this, just want to point that out, and asking if there was something going on prior to your disclosure yesterday. Something must have happened that made her concerned for your well being. Do you know what it was?

Also, I am so very sorry you're going through this.