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Originally Posted by justafriend306
Well I'm going to throw this out there. You mentioned behavior like ordering him to fetch you dinner amongst other situations. Is it possible the harshness is from both sides then? I really like the fact however you are working on your self. You also have to take care of your needs. For this to work he needs to do the same. All the best!
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i don't order him to get me dinner. he usually offers it to me. and he'll notice that i'm anxious and then that when he offers to bring me my food to the room, or sometimes i've asked him to do it. but i never order him :/ and i said i only did that cause it makes me feel anxious. and i realize that the harshness is from both sides, ik that it's both of us.