You are very wise. I hadn't shared this yet but now I think I want to. The gal who did my reading, I asked her for more information, basically she told me that - without knowing the context - she said something about she sees a pot, representing wholeness, but that I have a concern, and the problem is that I am over-concerned and that makes the concern take on a life of it's own and she said it's like if I continue that way, she sees an incompleteness, a "shattering of the pot", no wholeness. And that she sees that I need to tap into the masculine energy inside me that is authoritative, so that I can act with authority even if I don't feel it, and then it will come. (this last bit, to me sounds like my animus, and that is something i've been working with in t, connecting with my animus.)

This spoke volumes to me and makes even more sense to me now that I actually wrote it down.