My younger sister and I are polar opposites in some ways. She is outgoing and happy and I'm not. She always had lots of friends and she was never w/o a b.f for long. She'd go out a lot as well and she'd take a lot of risks that I never would. For example, she went sky diving once and she had the time of her life. She's competitive too. I'm not.

We were never that close growing up although she did become friends with a lot of the same people that I was friends with as kids. Things change once we became teenagers. I became depressed and withdrawn. She didn't try to hide her shame. She thought that I was "weird" and her friends and other people thought that I was "weird" too.

She was a real brat and she'd like to tease me a lot and get on my nerves at times. She also had no problem using me when she needed a ride or for free meals when she was broke and living at home. I was way to nice to her at times. She is a fake party girl type. So I don't get how she can manage to have so many friends.

Anyways, we had our ups and downs to where we didn't talk to each other for over a year since she attacked me from behind once when I brought up some stuff that she didn't like. I got mad and defended myself by hitting her back. I shouldn't have. My parents and my husband broke up the fight and I wanted to call the cops on her, but they wouldn't let me.

My face was badly bruised and I still have a small scar on my upper lip and one slight one below my eyebrow. Thankfully it's barely visible. I looked like I was in an accident for MONTHS! She didn't apologize to me until over a year later.

Things were OK for awhile, but now she has completely given up on me. It all started back in April of this year. She ended up blocking my number and told me that it's to much "work" to deal with me. I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt in the past even though we didn't get along at times, but she has done very little for me. All she's done for me lately is give me a cheap gift and a discount on styling my hair and other stuff.

She accused me of being "paranoid" since I insisted on adding up the expenses from her doing my hair and other stuff. She's a stylist. She was offended that I didn't take her word for things. I don't trust her at all since she is not a trustworthy person, and who can blame me for that? I still tipped her and she didn't even thank me for the tip! She told me that I had "issues" and then I got pissed, so I told her to eff off.

I then later texted her to apologize and she just went off on me and made fun of me and told me that I'm the one with the problem, and that I have this hostile look about me, and that other people talk about me and that she tells me that I can't even comprehend how my attitude effects how other people see me, blah, etc...She knows that I'm shy, socially anxious, depressed, insecure, so I think that she was trying to b.s me just to mess with me and make me feel bad.

My friends don't think that there is anything wrong with me. My husband has told me that I sometimes don't appear to look friendly in public. I'm a nice person, so I don't believe her. At first I did though. She was getting back at me for finding out about her first DUI for calling her a narcissist, a user, a phony, and I also told her that she needs to me on meds for her biploar disorder, but she thinks that she's fine. She thinks that she's normal, but she's not.

She was also offended that I talked about how her ex husband committed identity theft and I was under the impression that she knew about it even though she denied it as she has done shady things before like stealing my d.l to get into clubs when she was a teenager. I know that we all make mistakes, but she keeps on doing a lot of shady stuff, so I don't trust her at all.

One other ex b.f told me that she tried to get him back into dealing drugs to support her. He also claimed that she stole his checks and debit card. She has also been in a few abusive relationships to where three guys have hit her, and once she went to jail for it although she claimed the guy hit her. And her current b.f hit her once when he was drunk, but he promised her to never do it again.

One time she told me that she never thought I'd get married before her and that she's jealous of me. I'm sure she'd love to be married too. I have a good life and I get to travel once every year or two, and I don't have to work, and I don't have kids. Her b.f doesn't make much, so they can't travel. Maybe she's really resentful that I have a much better life than her? We have a house to and they live in an apartment.

I'm very hurt by all of this. I wish that I could have a good relationship with her and that she would care about me and treat me with respect, but she is clearly ashamed of me. Also, she is clearly in denial about her bipolar disorder. I have no desire to ever talk to such a huge ***** like her again. I'm not perfect in any way, but it seems like she has no morals as she keeps on doing shady stuff.

She is also my parents favorite child which is disgusting. She uses them to pay for her stuff since she doesn't work. And she has a b.f. My dad pays for her luxury car, and my mom pays for meals and her clothes. It's sickening. She is almost 40 going on 14 it seems like.

Does anyone have awful siblings too? I've had it with her. She is toxic and she'll probably never ever change her ways. I'm sure that when my dad dies though she'll be kissing my but as he's leaving me in charge of my mom's share of the money as she'll try to use my mom for money as she's greedy She'll blow through her share in a year he said. I'm going to love being able to dole out an allowance for her when the time comes, lol!