I don't believe anything physical happened between them, but a wife knows things. The counselor agreed with my feelings. I am working on it. Hubby knows how I feel, and I will stand my ground. I would never leave my home and what we have worked for for 31 years. I want our marriage to work, and for him to reason things out in his male brain! Men and woman do think differently. The counselor was real cute, and pointed to his little bald head, and said "we guys are dense sometimes". There has to be some humor or we would never make it through this life! I appreciate all of you in here for just being here with me. We all need to stick together and help each other all we can.