sounds like you are both doing everything you can to fix this breakdown (temporary hopefully).

It's never too late sweetie, please trust me on that one, married for 19 years, rocky road, still have problems but still working on it (though today I feel like throwing plates full of something sticky at him lol).You will fix this if you both love each other enough and it sounds like you do, I wish you luck and care and positive thoughts, keep us posted, keep talking, keep showing your love, if you believe in God he will help you chose the right path and guide you.

Jinnyann xoxoxoxoxoxoxxo