...I'll echo that thought....
You are unique...yourself....you. You do not need to be told...or feel guilty...about what you choose to do.
You are an island...in a swirling sea of mixed feelings and emotions. Pick and choose what you want to wash up on your shore. Feel guilt no more.
Shout it out...throw rocks...rant....that's cool and it is a few ways among many.
Take care hon...we'll be here.
d.