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Old Sep 11, 2016, 09:44 AM
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Originally Posted by _Mouse View Post
Not sure weaning works. It would be better to just carry on doing the work in therapy and watching as the needs toy have change automatically. Stopping doing something, is just that. It's not an answer.
I am not sure. It was my idea to stop, not his. He actually assured me that he's had clients who got out of control with emailing, and he had to ask them to stop. He says I'm nowhere near emailing him that much. I think my discomfort comes from reading too much into his emails, response time, etc. I make myself crazy by over analyzing. Then I reach out again and again in desperation. My big fear is that I will drive him away.