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Old Sep 11, 2016, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by leomama View Post
Hi Shy Introvert, I am an introvert too. I have a mean sibling, but I don't think he hates me. He actually just texted me a few minutes ago, and then I saw your post.

My brother has been verbally abusive to me in the past so I was very cautious about responding to him. I still have to protect myself, just because he is younger doesn't mean he can't bully.

If you are an adult you can control the amount of contact you have siblings.

Do you think reducing contact would help?
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Hi, sorry to hear that. At least you two are on speaking terms. Have you ever told your brother that he's being a verbally abusive bully? That's good that you protect yourself.

I decided to finally give up on her. She refuses to get help or acknowledge that anything is wrong with her. My parents are the same way, so I rarely talk to them. They are all very self absorbed and they are always quick to blame everyone but themselves for whatever problems they have.

My mom is a paranoid recluse and my dad is a narcissist with a bad temper. Maybe my younger sister wouldn't be so bad if she gets on the right meds, idk. She has done nothing but hurt me again and again. She is not a nice person. She is selfish, manipulative, insensitive, judgemental, fake, and just plain nasty. She is also clearly a user. I truly don't get why anyone would have anything to do with her with her being like that. She can be charismatic, funny, smart, and she is usually cheerful and confident (outwardly at least).

I know that she hates me and that she's jealous of me even though she says she isn't jealous of me. I'm sure that she'd love to be married and love to travel and not have to rely on my parents for stuff. Also, the fact that she looks down on me for being the way that I am makes me resent her too. She is a disgusting person for treating me so badly when I tried to be nice to her at times.

No more. I''m not stupid. People like her will never ever change. My day will come as long as my dad sticks to his guns. I hope that she won't be able to manipulate him into changing anything. If she manages to do that, then I will probably get nothing as that's how greedy and spiteful she is. And she'll take whatever my mom has, no doubt about that.

When my dad is no longer around, she sure as hell is NOT going to be driving a luxury car for sure! I'll do everything that I can to make sure that she only has enough to buy a used car, LOL!!!!