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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Losing ex-T was my most pressing issue. I was allowed to address it for as long as I needed to. Even still, I can talk about ex-T. I don't because there's not much more anyone can do or say. The only thing we don't talk about is the "why" because there will never be an answer and I only torture myself going down that path.
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I'm so sorry you didn't get the answers you were looking for. Your therapist was a jerk for not helping you get the closure you needed. Reprehensible.
I knew I was done talking about it when I could hear his name without tearing up. When I could risk driving by his old office without fear of seeing him on the street. When I could get to a place of wishing him well instead of hoping he had a bad turn of fate that made him as miserable as he made me. My only remaining question was why his compassion for me ran out. I'll never understand how someone can do a 180, especially if they have allegedly done their own work. I still get a little triggered by posts here but nowhere near where I used to be.