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perhaps I'm making the mistake of believing she is the only one in this whole wide world that can help me? Perhaps I need to learn to find new ways alongside T to live my life?
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I remember at one of the early meetings with my first counselor, she said that I needed to develop outside resources of support. I said I thought that's what you were for. And she said no, she could not do that alone. I needed to have others in my life for support. So that was something I really worked on in therapy with her. It was very useful.
Yes, mouse, go cook your kids something scrumshilicious! Or better yet, cook something with them (if they will). My girls love to bake stuff with me. Wish my oven wasn't broken.
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