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Originally Posted by runlola72
I am not sure. It was my idea to stop, not his. He actually assured me that he's had clients who got out of control with emailing, and he had to ask them to stop. He says I'm nowhere near emailing him that much. I think my discomfort comes from reading too much into his emails, response time, etc. I make myself crazy by over analyzing. Then I reach out again and again in desperation. My big fear is that I will drive him away.
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I can relate to this. It all ends up being grist for the mill. Like telling him about your fear of driving him away and looking more closely at where that comes from. Almost sure it wouldn't have originated in this present situation. Talking about it might uncover stuff that will be helpful for you. I just used that sentence as an example. Mouse has a point too about not stopoing while you need it so.