I'm surprised you didn't get in touch with your pdoc before to tell him/her that you were having intolerable side effects from the medications so that they could make adjustments.

But certainly since it's gotten to this point of not taking the meds, I would definitely tell them. It's better for your stability and, if not, I fear it could make your commitment worse if you're not honest with them. I think it's best that you get back to your family asap -and in a stable state- and the best ways to do that, is to take the meds, and if they have intolerable side effects, to let your providers know.

Please do what's best for you!