I am so happy for you! Hearing that your h is utilizing your church sounds like a huge factor. I love watching certain family members that maintain affirmations of their marriages and church is a large part of that. One of the marriages that I have in mind only recently, within the past couple of years have taken this path. A major health scare added to it, but they just celebrated 17 years of marriage. Was a rocky early mid point for them.

It takes time.