Hi Biba_yu.

As I only joined a couple of day`s ago and just getting the feel of things' `BUT` your thread has similar characteristics` to the way I think!....I mean, if I phone my brother up to have a natter about things`, I get the feeling he wants` to get off the phone as quick as he can! Or he say`s to me that he has just been on the phone for an hour with one of his mates`! Or if I was talking too my dad about something, half way through the conversation he would just walk away!!!!!! And then I say to myself "What the f$£%"! or he doesn't care! And then another thought comes` into my head ` is it the content of the conversation that's` making them back away! Maybe I am hurting them un-intentually!!!!

Also I am always` saying to my work mates` give me a shack on a secluded island with a cat and my fishing rod and I would be as happy as a pig in ****!

Take care...............Al