Do you like the t and are you comfortable wiith the t? We had one girl one time and she made a card for the t tellin that t how she wasnt scared to talk to her or nothin but she has hard times just showin up in front. She cant do that she either gonna be there or no. She cant help it so a card worked real good for her. That girl did lots of helpful work with t all through cards. She one time made the best system map ever for that t. It was cool.
Then we got another one who is a protector typpe and shed just show up in t and rat out the one hostin back then.

The first time that protector show up in t it took that t lady a min sittin there like whaaaaa? Then the t got to knowin whats up and knew it wasnt the one she was usta talkin to. That protector type tho she could just show up when she wanted to so thats what she did and it worked for her. She didnt get scared or nothin with t so it worked for her. I bet if you do show up to talk then your t will catch on to that its not the other one she been talkin to.
I think its nice and helpful how you wanna work with t. I wish i wasnt scared of ts.
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no hugs or prayers pls n thx
(dx list: DID/PTSD, ASD, GAD, OCD, LMNOP)