Your two therapists sound too caught up in your situation, you really shouldn't need three therapists at one time and not one T to help you cope with another that you're still seeing. I don't say that to blame you, I know your situation has been very tangled but you're bouncing from one to the other which means it has the potential to be messy. I'd be furious if a T warned another T about me - just not ok but as long as you keep going between them it's likely to stay entangled.

If I were in your position, I'd stop discussing any of them with the other, and revoke any permission they have to talk to each other about you. Keep each relationships all separate and clean and maybe then see who you want to still see and get rid of the others.