it sounds to me like you are on the right track, though depression is never a track anyone wants to be on, at least while you are experiencing it you are giving yourself the best chances by receiving treatment and to have the wife support you is better still... i believe it is true God doesn't give us more than we can handle... some of Gods' acts are truly mysterious but if we keep fighting and loving i believe we can all make it through and these painful times are making us stronger... maybe we are going to need the strength for Gods' next plan...