Maybe someone cane help me understand this? I've posted about my break up on here, was with my ex fiance 7 years, she came to me unexpectedly and said she thought we needed to go our separate ways because she had lost herself, and had grown away from me and couldn't find herself with me there. Ok, granted it was a blow still hurts like hell, and I'm sure will for quite some time I still love her and always will, but accept her decision.

She has said she wants to be friends, but it will take her time, I can respect that...but in the mean time, How does someone go from being your lover, bestfriend, never fighting or having problems...tells me she knows she's hurt me terribly and can't ever make it right ..to now being so cold and heartless, almost angry towards me. How does someone do that??