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Originally Posted by LeeeLeee
I'm so sorry, I know this hurts you. It sounds like she's been thinking about this for awhile. You can't argue your way back into someone's heart.
You deserve to be with someone who meets you at that commitment level of mutual respect, understanding, harmony, friendship.
I recommend the following books:
Getting Past Your Break Up by Susan Elliott. She also has a Youtube Channel. She encourages everyone to look within, take personal inventory of their relationships and their life while dealing with the grief from the loss of the relationship.
https://www.youtube.com/user/GettingPastYourPast/videos
Another thing I recommend is reviewing the articles on GRIEF here on Psych Central. You may or may not realize it but you are grieving an intense loss, and even though your ex fiance didn't die.. it's a loss and you're unexpectedly having to deal with it.
Hang in there. Move out and begin NO CONTACT.. Trust me, you will feel so much better if you just give the "friendship" she wants a break.
Keep sharing on the forums!
Best of luck,
Lele |
Thank you... believe me I understand I can't argue my way back in, by no means is that what I am trying to do, I don't still live there, I moved 900 miles away in with my parents because she gave me no other option, or choice, the choice was made for me, when she told me she wanted me to leave...and I had to move somewhere I didnt want to move, to a town I didnt want to move to, that I hate, In with my parents which I didnt want to do, where I am miserable, but dont have a choice, because I am on disablilty and cant afford a place of my own and cant find a place I can afford at this time living in a very small town with nothing to do....or anywhere to go, So you sit and watch tv or browse the internet, so its really hard to keep your mind off it and move forward...