He just called a few minutes ago because I gave in and texted him. But I'm angry because of what's going on, so I didn't answer. He kept calling and calling, I refused to answer. Finally he texted me, asking why am I not answering, that if I'm not going to answer then "DONT CALL!!!" So I said to myself "Fine I won't." After that he begins explaining why he didn't acknowledge my call last night ("I was busy, etc.") But then after that he turns around and calls again, left a message with an insult "what's wrong? Are you going through one of your moods again? Did you forget to take your medication? Time is too valuable for silly things, etc!"
So now it's his turn I guess to feel slighted, ignored, dismissed, avoided, whatever? What about me? Why do men feel it's okay to treat women like rubbish, but when the dirt is thrown back at them (though not intentionally), they get all indignant? I don't get it.
Basically asking if I'm going through my moods, making mention of my medication he's playing down my emotions as if they're nothing, I am nothing.
Yes, on my voicemail, he did mention he got my call/voicemail last night, but explained why he didn't/couldn't answer it (some crap about being busy). I guess, what, that was supposed to make me leap for joy? Well it didn't because I felt it was bogus. What about the other times?
And I feel that when a man uses a woman's bodily functions or illnesses against her he's not admitting and acknowledging that her feelings are real, very real. So for him to say to me "what's wrong? Are you going through one of your moods? Did you forget to take your medication today"? that's low, real low.