I see someone who has been a therapist for 20+ years and is a candidate at a psychoanalytic insititute. I chose her because I wanted an analytic approach and inquired at a psychoanalytic institute in a large city near me to see if they had a candidate who was practicing in my community.

It sounds like you're saying that your counsellor isn't a good fit for you.

Here's a site that has a not of information about therapists and therapies, if your'e interested: http://www.guidetopsychology.com