No worries that the post glitched as a double entry. I've had that happen to me before. If anything, if you choose, click the report icon and send a little message to one of the mods that there's a double post and they can fix that for you.

Gosh, I don't even know what to say. My flags went up on the friend and the need to go clubbing. Not that girl's nights aren't fun, it's that some types of friends can rub off negatively over time. And also the drinking, etc increase peaks my curiosity. Combined with extra spending(bikes) with an out of reach wedding budget.
I get how it could have come out of left field, for sure.

Sending you moral support through all of this is about all that I can do.