Personally, I would not marry someone who didn't want the same things I do.

Also I don't think you necessarily need to be married to have a child. Marriage is supposed to be forever and if you're only marrying for that reason it will be harder on the child if you end up divorcing when he/she is older, vs. co or single parenting and that's all they've known. Either way you have to make a choice, find someone who is willing to become a father (again, you don't necessarily need to marry this person before you have the baby) or give it up for him.

I'm different than most other people-I would only have 1 question for anyone wanting a child:

Are you going to love them forever, care for them, sacrifice your needs for their's and never abandon them?

You don't need to be perfect to do the above. I'd think the majority humans would be capable of doing the above. Sadly that isn't always the case.