i agree with what was said earlier fuzzy, you really can be a deep thinker!

i don't really like the grey... (nowhere ducks the arrows)... to me, grey is like saying "its all good"... it really isnt all good... some things really are bad... i try to recognize when i'm behaving badly, for myself and others... sometimes grey is good though if i think about it, but i just don't want to kid myself... harm is harm is harm... there is no grey to it