I have been reconnected with a friend from high school. We had sex two years ago, but when I found out he was only enjoying being single, I was upset because I had thought he wanted to be in a relationship. It's kinda happening all over again. He has just gotten out of a relationship for a few weeks now, and I was the first person to message him to hang out. We go hiking often and we text every day, and we got to talking about sex and it turned him on. My parents are going away on vacation which is the perfect time for him to come over, but I don't want to be put in the situation where we have sex and he only wants to enjoy the single life while I want to be in a relationship with him. Don't get me wrong, he's an amazing guy. He's funny, he's polite, he treats me to meals and pays the bill...he's a full-on gentleman.

But if we have sex I don't want it to be a one-time thing. I really don't know what to do. I want sex, but I want the whole relationship package and it seems every time I see him he's either in a relationship or single and loving it.

What do I do?