hey. sometimes... people know not what they say. he probably thought that everyone in the group had told everyone else who their individual therapist was. of course, he was wrong. and he needs to learn to be more careful with that - but i really do think that it was an honest mistake.

i guess i think... that whether he was in breech of regulations or not... can you understand how it was an honest mistake and how it isn't a mistake that is likely to lead to loss of your job or your suffering stigma from your peers. i mean... it wasn't a mistake that has resulted in people who didn't know you had borderline personality learning that you did in fact have borderline personality. it wasn't a mistake that has resulted in people learning that you see a therapist when they didn't know that you did see a therapist. so... no major harm done.

on the other hand... i do understand why you felt upset that he said that. and i think that it is worth saying something to him about that. because he should learn that he needs to be careful with that kind of thing.