Grey (or gray) is a good place to be imo. It's when you're in b/w thinking that you have to do something "with" the grey. To say it's just a frame of mind and isn't in touch with reality, well, that's a common view from the b/w area, imo. I've been there, I know.

Grey is not just glossing over reality. It's taking things that are negatively affecting us and putting them into a proper perspective. Making everything either-or isn't good for the psyche, imo (and in many other's opinions.)

TC!