I never wore lingerie, but I was worried my boyfriend might want me to. I gathered up my courage to ask him (I find lingerie a bit embarrassing), and his opinion was that he wasn't into it, I could have the same effect in regular underwear and a bra, and it doesn't matter to him since it'll be off soon. Some girls I knew said their boyfriends felt the same. Maybe to a certain group of people, it's just more clothes than really creating a more attractive picture. I doubt he'd like me less if I wore it, though.