{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Justy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I don't have any advise for you but do you know what I would have done? I would have told my lawyer (and I did once!) "OVER MY DEAD BODY!" Then I would have brought up the point that your son is in danger while in custody of his dad. That having failed, I would have denied visitation. (which I did waaaay more than once!)

Back in those days I was compared to a rabid momma bear and my motto was "Full speed ahead and DAMN the figgin' torpedoes!" (Sheesh! I scare myself sometimes. teehee)

CRAP! I mean... they deny granparent visitation for way less than that! Don't the courts realize how much harder they are making life for your boy??? AAHHHHH! They must have forgotten "In the best interest of the CHILD"!!!