All I ever wanted was to raise a family. My fiance 'couldn't see' himself raising children. Lo and behold, I was pregnant (age 21) and my fiance wanted to get married right away (I wasn't in such a rush to marry). Well, we did marry, I was a stay-at-home-mom...long story short we ended up raising 2 children together and are now the still-married parents of two wonderful adult children. My opinion might be unpopular, but I've noticed that there are many times when men claim they don't want children only to absolutely adore that baby once its born, and become a terrific dad. BUT not all men...you have to know your guy

btw, I'm 53 and STILL have baby fever. I would love to have a grandchild, but that won't be happening too soon as my kids are very career-path oriented.