Hi Biba_yu.

Remember the other day when I mentioned that it could be what you talk about and that you might be hurting them un-intentually??

`Well` it prompted me to ask my brother about the way that I feel when talking to him on the phone!!!!!! And his answer was " He loves` me visiting and phoning him up anytime `BUT` when you starting talking about our dad or Dave (Brother) I have to go as it starts` to hurt him!!!!!!!!!! Now I understand that he is still grieving................

Take care................Al