IMO, calling someone Hot is similar to the cat calls that guys would make when a woman walked by. Totally inappropriate ever on the cat calls & using the term hot only possibly when already in a relationship with the person. A friend could say you are looking Hot today as a compliment for really looking nice, but I do not approve of sexual overtones between people who don't even know someone.....that has to do with sexual values, not with a label that people keep sticking on themselves so people know where they are coming from sexually....again none of anyone's business unless you really know the person. IMO, Too much weight is being placed on SEX in society these days rather than keeping it a private thing between the people who are involved.