Oh, {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mary Alice}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}: Don't do it just to spite him, that's what I say. The best revenge is LIVING well, and that's what you and your son deserve to do = without him. He's projecting in a big way his own failings onto you = PLEASE DON'T LISTEN TO HIM!!!!!! You deserve so much better than this; make a plan to start a new LIFE and to heck with him = how about it?!!! Screw him!!! I am SOOOO mad!!!!! [Peanut spitting nails & cussing a blue streak]. We CARE ABOUT YOU, here, Mary Alice, so how about sticking around and show him that you can get along just fine without him = oh, gosh, I should be finding something more positive and more neutral than this, but screw him is what I say! XOXOXO!!!! Your friend, Peanut

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT :-)</font color=blue>