oh yeah, without a doubt... some bad things happen outside our control and finding grey there is a remedy... your point is valid... i'm referring to those things which clearly are black and white... whenever i need to process i guess my first step is to find which side of the line an event sits upon... i don't prefer grey because it is not a "definite"... in times of my all too uncertain thinking it helps to categorize... some things are easier than others... war for instance, hate, disrespect, mean-ness are easily classified as in the black... love, kindness, helping fall on the other side...

to be sure, b/w thinking is also a mistake at times... we have Hitler as an example... but too much grey... for me it can just be wishy-washy at times... thanks for sharing sky and allowing me to have my opinion, even if it is wrong, life is learning...