I hate drama, and yet it continues....
My T is very understanding and pissed too on my behalf. She intends to speak to "insensitive co-facilitator."
I do understand that people make mistakes. When I make a mistake, I fully own it and apologize and I always hope and expect that others will too. I guess "expect" is problematic.
This 2 week group experience has been very provocative for me in many ways and VERY stressful.
I don't have BPD so am second-guessing if this is even the right group at all? I think the skills are good and could be helpful to anyone including me, but I'm not a big fan of drama and so far, from what I've seen, groups are all about drama. Please tell me I'm wrong!
I don't feel the need to get him in "trouble" for any of this. I just wish his response had been a little more empathetic. But, then, I don't know him at all, so maybe he doesn't "do" empathetic? I dunno. I guess I'm trying to balance my anger with my compassion, and then when I'm tired of thinking about it, I'm pissed that I'm in this situation at all.
Okie