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Originally Posted by runlola72
Yes, the obsessive thoughts kill me. I replay over and over in my mind scenarios that will never happen. I'm hoping to "name it (and discuss it) to tame it".
As an aside, I would love to be able to tell T that I'm feeling fond of him. Seems like such an intimate admission though... I'll have to work up courage
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Sorry to hear about the obsessive thoughts--they're the worst. I hope naming and taming it works for you. Good luck with everything.
As an aside of my own, I think it's possible your T seems hesitant to talk about it because he's hesitant to be the first one to name it. I think sometimes T's don't want to be the first ones to name something like this because imagine how awkward and self-aggrandizing that would look if they were wrong.