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Old Oct 21, 2007, 02:43 PM
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Hi all, first post but always around reading you all...

I've been seeing t for 2 years. not much older than me. we've both acknowlegded our chemistry as friends and how it would have been nice to meet under other circumstances, but here we are and so it will be.

but, as we get into trauma stuff.....i can't do it. i want her to hug as a friend would and console as a friend would i want to keep it together.....she likes me and i often wonder if she has crossed boundaires (not sexually) with me too much to make me see her as a therapist anymore. i mean we only see eachother at the office but i know a lot (imo) anout her and she call me her favorite sometimes......does this seem ok? as i like to hear about her life because i'd love to be friends with her, i don't feel the psychotherapist when i am supposed to and i am screwing up the process but don't want to leave. I should have picked someone else when we hit it off right away from the get go....

just maybe some thoughts would be nice, i know i haven't gotten too specific here, but how to go from friend to therapist?