In every relationship you're ever finding out about the person. The learning goes on and on, it never stops. It could be something as simple as text messages. And so another thing I'm learning about my guy is that he doesn't think it necessary to respond to each and every text. And I'm fine with that . It shows, to me, that he's discriminating. (Actually, a concern of mine too was if he actually receives them.But now I know he gets my messages ).