I do not consider T my friend nor has she ever called me on. There was one time I saw her outside of session and she asked me to do something. I declined and emailed her later. It was something very innocent I just didn't know how to handle it. She apologized and said I was right that she had treated me as a friend and if we had met under different circumstances we would be friends.

There have been a couple of times I have seen her and her boyfriend in public. We spoke for a few moments and she introduced me to her boyfriend as her friend for privacy reasons. Or when I realized a person I know lives across the street from her home office. She wondered how I felt if they saw me going into her home. I told her I was okay with it. To which she said, they don't need to know why you are here I have many friends over so they can just think that.